Life Lessons

{Written By, Candice Landis 06/01/2014)


I Learn A Lot From Watching My Children 

Most Of All I Learn About Being A Friend 

The  Friendships They Have Are Truly Amazing 

Full Of Honesty And Sincerely Caring   


I Did Not Experience Any Of That As A Child 

I Was  Used To Being Betrayed  And Reviled

If It Wasn't Happening At Home It Was Happening At School 

I Was Surrounded By People Who Took Pleasure In Being Cruel


My Children Amaze Me With Their Ability To Love

To Draw People Close With No Fear To Speak Of

To Be Loyal And Kind And Supportive In Times Of Need

My Children Have Taught Me About All Of These  


I Became A Grudge Holder At A Very Young Age 

When My Children Would Argue With Their Friends  At School  I Would Become Enraged

When They Would Make Up And Forgive Them I Was Dumbfounded And Amazed

In My  Mind That Person Could No Longer Be Trusted  And I Would Let Them Know 

They Would Tell Me, It's Ok Mom, We're Friends Again, You Need To Let It Go  


It Was Hard For Me To See My Children Hurt And Betrayed

I Didn't Realize How Wrong I Was In Encouraging Them To Forget The Friends They Had Made

To Advise Them To Never Trust Again  Because Of Mistakes

I Wanted Them To Be Guarded Like Me, I Thought It Would Keep Them Safe


Those Friends They Fought With And Cried Over Are Still Their Friends Today

They Really Do Care About Each Other And I Admit I'm Still Amazed 

I'm Still  Learning How To Forgive, Over Come And Let Things Go  

Thankfully  This Is Something My Children  Just Seemed To Instinctively Know 


I'm Grateful That Always Being On Guard Is Something They Never Needed To Know

I'm Grateful They Didn't Listen To Me And Let Those Friendships Go

They Are My Greatest Blessings The Lord Chose Upon Me To Bestow

Along With The Seeds Of Friendships Today That I'm Still Learning How To Sew


It's Still Difficult At Times For Me To Really Trust And Open Up

To Not Be Suspicious Of Acts Of Kindness And Love  

In Those Times Though I Have Learned To Lift My Head Up 

To Ask  For Guidance From Our Lord Above  


He Has Brought Me So Much Further Than I Ever Believed I Could Go 

He Loves Me Unconditionally And Every Day He Lets Me Know 

The Love And Compassion I Have For Others Is A Gift I Have Never Before Known

Our Father Has Filled My Life With Blessings Of A Magnitude That's Impossible To Be Told


Every Single Day In Our Saviors Care I Continue To Learn And Grow

I'm Trying To Be A Better Person And Some Have Told Me It Shows

Some Have Walked Away From Me Because Of My Faith And I've Gently Let Them Go

They Will Return One Day  Wanting To Learn Of Our Saviors Love And I'll Share With Them What I Know














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